A building dispute starts long before anyone says the word: the standard slipping, the dates drifting, the phone answered less. What you do in the first week — before positions harden — determines whether this ends with a finished job, a fair settlement, or years of expensive regret. Here is the playbook.
1. Preserve the Evidence, Today
Building disputes are decided on records, and records decay fast. Today: photograph everything, dated, wide shots and close-ups; export the message history with the builder; assemble the contract or quote, the drawings, and the payment trail from bank statements. If workmanship is the issue, do not let anyone “fix” anything until it is documented — repairs destroy the proof. The full gathering list, tailored to your dispute: the preparation checklist tool.
2. Move the Conversation to Writing
Site conversations evaporate; letters remain. One clear, civil email or letter: the specific problems, what you require done, a reasonable deadline. No insults, no threats you won’t keep, nothing that reads as throwing him off the job. This document either gets the job fixed — the best outcome available — or becomes the foundation of everything after.
3. Stop Paying Ahead of Work
The single most common way homeowners lose these disputes financially is being paid-ahead when the wheels come off. From today: no payment except against completed, verified work, and any withholding explained in writing and tied to the specific failures. Full treatment of the money questions: disputes with builders.
4. Know Your Rights Before You Assert Them
Your claim runs on the contract (written, quote-based or verbal — all enforceable) plus the implied duties of proper skill, care and materials, reinforced by the Consumer Rights Act 2022 where you dealt as a consumer. Your risks run on the same law: wrongful termination, wrongful non-payment and evidence-destroying self-help are how strong positions become weak ones. The line between leverage and liability is exactly where early advice pays.
5. Escalate in the Right Order
The ladder: the written demand; the solicitor’s letter (a striking share of disputes end here — builders and their insurers price a documented claim differently); mediation where economics or an unfinished build favour agreement; then proceedings scaled to the claim — District, Circuit or High Court by value, with an expert report doing the heavy lifting if defects are the issue (how suing actually works). Time limits apply to all of it — complex ones. The dispute you park for two years is the claim you may quietly lose: the limitation trap.
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About the Author
Richard O’Shea, Solicitor practises with Mary Molloy Solicitors (established 1981), advising homeowners, self-builders, subcontractors and SME contractors across Ireland on building disputes, defects claims and payment recovery. Richard holds a Diploma in Mediation from the Law Society of Ireland — central to construction work, where conciliation and mediation resolve many disputes without a courtroom. Contact Richard on 01 5827148 or richardoshea@marymolloysolicitors.com.
This article is for general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every farm and family situation is different, and you should obtain advice on your own circumstances before acting. In contentious business, a solicitor may not calculate fees or other charges as a percentage or proportion of any award or settlement.